- Xander Nichting
- Angee Seeton
- OnlyHalfCrazy Gumbo (Terri Jo) (and the hamster!)
- Melodee McDonnell
- and with intermission DJing by Sven, Gwenni and Llola of more of Annemarie's favourite songs
In addition, outside the cathedral there was a slide show of Annemarie with friends and family ~ this complementing the magnificent gallery of family portraits than Miss San has organised at her club.
The artists generously donated their services and the audience donated their tips to the Dutch cancer fund, and by the end of the evening more than US$200 of Lindens had been collected.
Thank you everyone for your memories and celebration of Anne and for such generous donations.
Here are some pictures of the service, the start of the celebrations and the family gallery
I took 105 pictures so clearly not everything can ever be shown ... I have also included the log of the service so all members of the Family can share that moment with those who were fortunate enough to be able to be present ...
[2009/08/28 11:35] Sven Pertelson: I will play a song dear to Annemarie and Liz while Olivia takes her place
[2009/08/28 11:36] Eefje Afarensis sits down next to the mother of their Esme
[2009/08/28 11:36] Tasja Lundquist holds Lizzie hand...
[2009/08/28 11:37] Llola Lane: <--listens to MY WISH
[2009/08/28 11:37] Eefje Afarensis: Hear it too, llola
[2009/08/28 11:38] Llola Lane: <--hopes Elaine can hear music :)
[2009/08/28 11:38] Liz Laville: <-- does not hear a thing
[2009/08/28 11:38] Olivia Paderborn: I can hear :)
[2009/08/28 11:38] Arwin Lane: play music at bottom
[2009/08/28 11:38] Liz Laville: :-)
[2009/08/28 11:38] Liz Laville: i knew that
[2009/08/28 11:39] Elaine Feiri: oh my god
[2009/08/28 11:39] Tasja Lundquist closes her eyes
[2009/08/28 11:39] Llola Lane: do you hear elaine?
[2009/08/28 11:39] Elaine Feiri: do you have any idea how often she played this?
[2009/08/28 11:39] Tasja Lundquist silently nods
[2009/08/28 11:39] Elaine Feiri: she had a special version of it
[2009/08/28 11:39] Arwin Lane: she loved this song
[2009/08/28 11:40] Olivia Paderborn: Dear family and dear friends, welcome to these beautiful surroundings that Llola, Sven and Liz have prepared.
[2009/08/28 11:40] Olivia Paderborn: We come here today to both commemorate and celebrate the all lives of Annemarie, our beloved mistress, sister and friend, here amongst the islands of Ozland - a place that she loved and which, like Second Life, sustained her through the dark days and nights of her illness.
[2009/08/28 11:40] Liz Laville: and wife
[2009/08/28 11:41] Tasja Lundquist: of course
[2009/08/28 11:41] Llola Lane: :)
[2009/08/28 11:41] Olivia Paderborn smiles at Liz and mother of Her child
[2009/08/28 11:41] Liz Laville smiles, eyes all wet
[2009/08/28 11:41] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie Niekerk was born in First Life in 1974, a year of some notable achievements for women's liberation. Unlike Comet Kohoutek that was discovered that year, Annemarie did go on to dazzle us all with her brilliance of wit, intellect, fun and zest for life.
[2009/08/28 11:41] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie was an amazing individual - she was robbed of her childhood, and yet she overcame that going on to love people and give generously to all she met in both her First Life and her Second Life.
[2009/08/28 11:42] Tasja Lundquist caresses Lizzie's back
[2009/08/28 11:42] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie was rezzed on the 10th of May 2007, brought here by Tasja who had rezzed the previous day, and who introduced Second Life to Annemarie, and Annemarie to it and therefore all of us: thank you Tasja for that wonderful gift to her and to us.
[2009/08/28 11:42] Liz Laville smiles at Tasja, returning the favour
[2009/08/28 11:42] Liz Laville squeezes Elaines hand
[2009/08/28 11:42] Olivia Paderborn smiles at both of them
[2009/08/28 11:43] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie had a great love of people, and in her First Life she confirmed her sexuality and her kinks with her great love of that life, a Dutch woman whom she met through work and who became Annemie's Mistress teaching Annemarie the insights and skills she brought to Second Life. Our thanks to that Woman for Her love of Annemarie and the gifts She gave her that Annemie passed on to us.
[2009/08/28 11:43] Elaine Feiri: she all loved you people soooo much
[2009/08/28 11:43] Olivia Paderborn: yes, she did, and she truly appreciate you my dear Elaine
[2009/08/28 11:43] Arwin Lane: we all love her very much
[2009/08/28 11:43] Liz Laville *sighs*
[2009/08/28 11:44] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie had only one idyllic holiday with her mistress: sailing the Greek Islands. Water and sailing were two of Annemie's delights and why she loved Ozland so much. Thank you Llola and Sven who with Arwin's wonderful support and enthusiasms gave her and us the gift that surrounds us.
[2009/08/28 11:44] Tasja Lundquist: we all loved Her very ver much too
[2009/08/28 11:44] Eefje Afarensis: And she is with her now
[2009/08/28 11:44] Olivia Paderborn sighs: yes
[2009/08/28 11:44] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie's passion was for people and she became a consultant in human relations for organisations - she grew to specialise in the area of cross-cultural challenges in which she had hoped to complete her doctorate. It was in recognition of her expertise in this area that she was asked to come to New York for what sadly became her last project. She fell in love with New York, and no doubt New York fell in love with her. We give our thanks to all New Yorkers.
[2009/08/28 11:45] Llola Lane smiles at Olivia.. and the family around her
[2009/08/28 11:45] Olivia Paderborn smiles at both the Queen and King of Ozland
[2009/08/28 11:45] Liz Laville tries to find the kleenex but can't see a d*mned thing
[2009/08/28 11:45] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie had been selected to join the United Nations so her skills could empower that organisation and to help make more effective its humanitarian and disaster relief missions around the world. Sadly the UN, and the peoples of the world, have lost a great catalyst for change and good.
[2009/08/28 11:46] Tasja Lundquist gently wipe Lizzy's tears
[2009/08/28 11:46] Liz Laville smiles through her tears
[2009/08/28 11:46] Llola Lane: thank you lil sis
[2009/08/28 11:46] Olivia Paderborn: (very shakey loves, very shakey)
[2009/08/28 11:46] Olivia Paderborn: Annemarie brought change to people's lives here in Second Life. Tasja and Anne became partners in Second Life, and they met Eefje and Emma. Annemie helped bring those two together as partners and helped Emma in many ways - Anne said "she will always be my babygirl" and "she has made me proud". And Eefje, whom Anne called her "rough diamond", helped Annemarie is a very special way, helping to exorcise Anne's deamons and bring peace to Annemarie's life. We thank Emma and Eefje for these gifts to her.
[2009/08/28 11:47] Liz Laville nods
[2009/08/28 11:47] Arwin Lane hands Lizz a tissue
[2009/08/28 11:47] Liz Laville: thanks sis
[2009/08/28 11:47] Olivia Paderborn blows a kiss to evie
[2009/08/28 11:47] Olivia Paderborn: Through 2008 Annemarie built a family in Second Life and home in Ozland and it was during this time that she first became aware of Liz and Liz's sad story that I am sure you have all read in Liz's blog. Perhaps it was my actions that help crystalise the situation such that Liz joined Anne's family in January of this year.
[2009/08/28 11:47] Eefje Afarensis: :)
[2009/08/28 11:47] Tasja Lundquist smiles trough her wet eyes at Eefje
[2009/08/28 11:48] Olivia Paderborn: Sadly for Liz and for us, by that time Annemarie had already been diagnosed as having an incurable brain tumour. And so as Annemarie and Liz fell in love they already knew their days were numbered. But what wonderful days they were: those days brought a great sense of joy and accomplishment to Annemarie. Thank you Liz for giving her that drive and that purpose that kept her alive beyond the predictions of the doctors.
[2009/08/28 11:49] Olivia Paderborn: So when Annemarie and Liz married in this wonderful building they already knew that Liz would become the widow. But that day was one of the happiest of Annemarie's remaining days. Thank you, thank you Liz.
[2009/08/28 11:49] Liz Laville's eyes are soaking
[2009/08/28 11:49] Tasja Lundquist: thank you so much Liz...
[2009/08/28 11:49] Olivia Paderborn: (mine too)
[2009/08/28 11:49] Olivia Paderborn: The second happiest day was when Liz gave birth to Annemiek - given Anne an experience that had been denied her in First Life. Thank you Liz for helping to make Anne's life complete. Thank you for the joy your brought her, and thank you for the love you gave her.
[2009/08/28 11:50] Liz Laville: need to be thankful to Her
[2009/08/28 11:50] Olivia Paderborn: She loved you so much Lizzie
[2009/08/28 11:50] Liz Laville hurts her hands squeezing tasja and Elaine
[2009/08/28 11:50] Olivia Paderborn: I want also to thank Amanda who like me joined Annemarie's circle and family too late to fully understand the wonderful vibrant person Anne was. Amanda has become a wonderful friend to LIz, supporting and sustaining Liz through Anne's illness and her death.
[2009/08/28 11:50] Tasja Lundquist holds Lizzie's hand
[2009/08/28 11:51] Olivia Paderborn: I am sad Amanda is not yet with us today
[2009/08/28 11:51] Liz Laville sniffs loudly
[2009/08/28 11:51] Olivia Paderborn: I know she wanted to be here
[2009/08/28 11:51] Olivia Paderborn: Thank you also Amanda for the love and partnership you have given Tasja, and the delight and love you give Eefje, all of these gifts of yours have helped sustain Annemarie's family - what Anne saw as her legacy to the world.
[2009/08/28 11:52] Olivia Paderborn: Sadly Annemarie's illness not only stole her life, but it also robbed us all of precious times when Annemarie collapsed in a coma and had to be hospitalised, and then later when her secondaries and associated infections meant she had to be in hospital and in isolation.
[2009/08/28 11:52] Olivia Paderborn: So I also want to thank someone who is new to Second Life but we all knew of as a Real Life person, I wish to thank Elaine, Annemarie's nurse. It was Elaine who sustained Annemarie following her coma, who cared for her, who was the conduit for Liz to communicate with Anne in hospital and who ensured that pictures of Liz and Annemiek accompanied Anne on her final journey.
[2009/08/28 11:53] Liz Laville cries her heart out
[2009/08/28 11:53] Tasja Lundquist: thank you Elaine, for all you've done for Anne....
[2009/08/28 11:53] Llola Lane: hugs to you Elaine :)
[2009/08/28 11:53] Liz Laville kisses Elaine
[2009/08/28 11:53] Elaine Feiri: no thanks needed
[2009/08/28 11:53] Olivia Paderborn: Now let us pray.
[2009/08/28 11:53] Tasja Lundquist feels tears run down her cheek and puts her arm round liz.
[2009/08/28 11:54] Olivia Paderborn:
[2009/08/28 11:54] Liz Laville: lies her head on Tassies shoulder
"Who art in heaven
Die in de Hemelen zijt"
"Hallowed be Thy name
Uw Naam worde geheiligd"
"Thy Kingdom come
Uw Koninkrijk kome"
"Thy will be done
Uw wil geschiede"
"On earth as it is in Heaven
Gelijk in de Hemel alzo ook op de aarde"
"Give us this day our daily bread
Geef ons heden ons dagelijks brood"
"And forgive us our trespasses
En vergeef ons onze schulden"
"As we forgive those who trespass against us
Zoals wij anderen hun schuld vergeven"
"And lead us not into temptation
En leid ons niet in bekoring"
"But deliver us from evil
Maar verlos ons van het Kwade"
"For Thine is the Kingdom
Want van U is het Koninkrijk"
"The power and the glory
En de kracht, en de heerlijkheid"
"For ever and ever
[2009/08/28 11:56] Olivia Paderborn:
[2009/08/28 11:56] Gwenni Fraisse: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Liz Laville: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Llola Lane: amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Sven Pertelson: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Tasja Lundquist: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Olivia Paderborn: Thank you Tasja for those words in Dutch
[2009/08/28 11:56] Elaine Feiri: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Brigitta Aabye: amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Julie Ezvalt: amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Arwin Lane: Amen
[2009/08/28 11:56] Llola Lane: Olivia please be seated :)
[2009/08/28 11:57] Sven Pertelson: Now we have a video that Annemarie wanted us to watch
[2009/08/28 11:57] Olivia Paderborn: Now let us put sadness behind us, now let us celebrate an amazing woman who brought grace and love to our lives both here and in our real lives.
[2009/08/28 11:57] Gwenni Fraisse: passes the tissues arround
[2009/08/28 11:57] Tasja Lundquist rubs her hand gently trough Lizzy's hairs
[2009/08/28 11:57] Liz Laville: grabs a fistful
[2009/08/28 11:57] Sven Pertelson: please press the video play button on your browser
[2009/08/28 11:58] Llola Lane: <--sniffs
[2009/08/28 11:59] Liz Laville feels her heart pound like crazy
[2009/08/28 11:59] Llola Lane: <--hopes everyone can see
[2009/08/28 11:59] Olivia Paderborn gazes in wonder
[2009/08/28 11:59] Tasja Lundquist quitely sings...
[2009/08/28 11:59] Arwin Lane quietly sobs ....
[2009/08/28 12:00] Brigitta Aabye: squeezes arwin's hand....
[2009/08/28 12:00] Llola Lane: OMG.. goosebumps
[2009/08/28 12:00] Tasja Lundquist cries
[2009/08/28 12:00] Llola Lane: Elaine .. can you see??
[2009/08/28 12:00] Elaine Feiri: she loved that
[2009/08/28 12:00] Liz Laville strokes her sisters hair lovingly
[2009/08/28 12:00] Julie Ezvalt: sniffing. I am so glad she wanted us to hear this. It is one of my favorite
[2009/08/28 12:01] Eefje Afarensis softly strokes Julie's back
[2009/08/28 12:02] Olivia Paderborn: Now let us go to celebrate Anne's life in the way she loved it - singing and dancing to her favourite music played by her favourite musicians. Thank you Liz, Arwin, Llola and Sven for bringing them and other beauties to both our lives and Annemarie's.
[2009/08/28 12:02] Monique Basevi: come ratna
[2009/08/28 12:02] Llola Lane: APPLAUSE
[2009/08/28 12:02] Arwin Lane squezzes Bri's hand tight
[2009/08/28 12:03] Liz Laville: thank you Miss O
[2009/08/28 12:03] Liz Laville: for your wonderfull words
[2009/08/28 12:03] Llola Lane: Liz will open the doors.. and the celebration will begin
[2009/08/28 12:03] Tasja Lundquist sits quitely and holds liz's hand
[2009/08/28 12:03] Eefje Afarensis: oh, so happy you came too, RRRatna
[2009/08/28 12:03] Liz Laville: Sven it is up to you now
[2009/08/28 12:03] Arwin Lane: Hi Ratna sis
[2009/08/28 12:03] Ratna Markova: hello eva
[2009/08/28 12:03] Arwin Lane: Hi Moni
[2009/08/28 12:03] Monique Basevi: hi arwin
[2009/08/28 12:03] Liz Laville: please stand up my family so i can remove the benches
[2009/08/28 12:03] Ratna Markova: hi arwin
[2009/08/28 12:03] Brigitta Aabye: hello monique and ratna
[2009/08/28 12:03] Llola Lane: you can leave the benches Liz.. there is plenty of room
[2009/08/28 12:03] Sven Pertelson: We are now pleased to welcome Xander Nichting to the stage - one of Annemarie's favourite artists